15 Mar Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you. Take a blow job tip or two and use your tongue, lips, and, yes, even teeth on his prime real estate in ways you've never imagined. 1 Feb There are few more intimate acts in the world than receiving oral sex from your lover. And the most frequent message that I received in response from my male readers/clients about why they loved blowjobs all came down to acceptance. They felt deeply accepted by their partner during oral sex. (Note: just. 11 May Oh, the joys of oral sex. Sure, receiving it is awesome, but giving oral sex is important for your sex life, too. As much as I enjoy it now, I'll admit that I wasn't always a fan. The good news is that with the right partner and plenty of practice, you can learn to ~let it go~ and eventually become comfortable enough.